Sunday, July 16, 2006

Loving Ur Loved Ones

Love the girl in your heart, not in your mind.

If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings.

Girls are there to be loved, not toyed around.
Hence, don't even think of flirting!

Love her for who she is.
Don't even think about changing any bit about her.

6 billion people in this world & 6 billion different personalities.
She's special & she will stay that way.
You change any part of her, you'll change her forever.

Don't substitute her for anyone else, they are just unique in their own ways.
Love whole-heartedly.
She sacrificed a lot for you so you'd better really treasure her.
I am sure the vice versa would stand true too.

She could have just got up & date a so much more dashing guy in town but she chose you instead all because of love.

Love is blind, remember? So, love her guys, not play with her.
Don't just get the girl to beg you to stay or whatsoever.

If you're with her, love her.
It never kills to be romantic.
Think, be flexible. Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her.
Be realistic, she's human & she lives life just like you.
Something sweet & simple always get the job done.
It doesn't have to be an expensive gift to create the air of romance.
Furthermore, she would not want you to spend unnecessarily.

Pledge your love to her & her alone.
Promise her & make sure you never break the promise.
Swear to her & make sure you live up to your word.

Respect.
Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity, that's not respecting love at all.
Respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be.
Be truthfulTell the truth, never hide anything from her.
If you want her to tell you everything, do the same.

Communicate
What is love without communication?
Talk! Talk about anything and everything under the sun.
From total crappiness to serious matters.
Exchange your views with her.
Tell her what is on your mind.
Don't worry about boring her with your nitty gritty details, just speak up your mind.She is your friend, your confidant, your partner.
All in all, she is everything.

Beware with who you socialise.
Socialise only when you're single.
You socialise & flirt around to get the girl of your dreams.
Get it over when she's already yours, don't ask for more.
You wouldn't wish to see your girl being overly close to a guy whom she claim as merely a friend, do you?

Make it today
Never promise her that you'll love her forever because your forever might end the next day.
Love her as if each day is the last.

Give her your heart
Loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to.
Same goes for her,giving u her heart means allowing u to break it and trusting unot to.
Instead, she'll cherish it & protect it.
Should'nt you do the same thing as well? That's love.

Give her your heart, your life, your everything.
Lay down your life & prepare to die for her when the need arises.
But stay strong & live through another day, she can never live without you.

Never walk out on her
Never, ever walk out of her life.
She won't just cry her heart out & carry on living as per normal, she'd die.
It's her heart that you've broken, how would you ever know how she feels?

Not yet the final victory
Don't leave her once you've won her love.
Love her all the way till the end of time, love her till marriage, love her till old age, love her till death.
If you can love her till the end of time, you've earned the honor & respect for you've truly loved her.
She chose you because she believes that you can fulfil your promise.
Win her heart back & love her all over again.

Lastly,,,For the blissfully attached couples, do treasure each other.
Fate doesn't come by easily.
Hand-in-hand, you two shall vow to walk through the rest of your life with each other.

For the singles out there, bear the above-mentioned pointers in mind. Never despair. Fate will definately drop by you one day. Look around you, for the one might have been there all along. Your days of blissfulness is definately within grip.

Love is in the air! Breathe it, feel it, have a share of it. Your life isn't complete without it!

BabyDoLL's Written Sins @ 3:08 PM